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Monday, January 21, 2013

Korea builds their first ever school for victims of bullying AND bullies

I often see readers on Twitter discuss the Korean school system using the reactions to the TV posts on 'School 2013' as a basis, and the conversations usually revolve around just how bad the bullying issues really are.

I thought this article would make for an interesting discussion on just how poorly Korea is dealing with all of these issues because 'School 2013' is exposing that there indeed is a problem, but documentaries exposing even crueler aspects have been around for years now and schools are still hiding that these issues exist.

A few years ago, I remember watching an extremely disturbing documentary about 'bread shuttles' in particular, which you can find images and more info on this Soompi post here.

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Article:
'The Tears of a School' The end of the Sonagi school saw a sea of tears from the students and their parents

Source:
TV Report via Nate

SBS recently ran a documentary special telling the story of a school named 'Sonagi', Korea's first ever school system where victims of bullying as well as their aggressors are put in one classroom to study together.

The idea came about with the increasing number of students dropping out of school from the physical and psychological stress of bullying as well as the bullies themselves, who were either expelled, transferred out of their school district, or at risk for suspension.

A run down school was reconstructed and remodeled as a special 10 day program where these students were taken in, housed together, and taught various lessons as a collective group. The project aimed to instill confidence in the victims and treat the inner anger of the aggressors.

The special was basically a feel-good drama where everyone was treated and made up and best friends by the end of the program, complete with a celebratory performance of 'You Raise Me Up' to mark the end of their journey and the start of a new life.

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1. [+172, -11] Do these people not know just how cruel and evil these iljin aggressors are? Committing violence is their sole job at school. They drink, they smoke, they steal money from students, they bully them, they turn the entire school against one. These are devils that purely enjoy such activities. How could they dare mix these devils in with victims who are all going through psychological trauma after already experiencing such horrible things?

Do the producers think it's funny to trivialize such an important issue like this? That school did nothing but give iljins another opportunity back into the school system and continue their power play over weaker students.

Viewers were touched by the show? I'm not sure how many would be touched by the actions of people who beat and torture their classmates..... There's nothing better in waking up these iljins than working them like dogs. They need to feel the pain of death to truly feel for themselves what it feels like to be scared to die.

2. [+138, -6] Two students did not show any sense of reflection at all, I had no idea why they were on the show.. I was mad the entire time I was watching because it felt like they were trivializing this entire issue

3. [+125, -4] I'm a victim of school aggression myself and I sincerely laughed while watching this show. It was so painfully obvious how everything was a lie. They were only acting like they were reformed because cameras were rolling and producers were watching them. When they get back to their own schools, they're going to go back to doing what they've always done.
And word of advice, don't let the victims sleep in the same room as the aggressors. Do you even know how insanely scary that would be for them?
10 days is much too short to expect any sort of change. At least a month minimum in military camp fashion is needed to even get through to these people.

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"The ending was forced and they trivialized an important issue. The aggressors may seem like they've changed their ways but I highly doubt a few days of a camp outing would have influenced their ways. I feel like the producers were out to make a feel-good documentary from the get go.. because the documentary felt like a movie. Realize that reality is not a movie and people do not change that quickly."

"There was no sense of reality to this. They needed to provide real consequences for the crimes these kids committed. Kids these days are smart, they know how to work around the system."

"Sounds more like 10 days of torture for the victims. How could they make them sleep in the same room as their aggressors?"

"Do not glamorize these aggressors."

"I have a hard time believing the aggressors were ready for change when they talked about all of the torture they put onto others while laughing in their dorms. This documentary served no purpose other than glamorizing the aggressors and trivializing the issue at hand."

"Even if the school had just included the victims and left out the aggressors, Korea's upbringing is so flawed that even within that group, a new aggressor will arise to continue the cycle."

"We need to implement ideas from American schools. I heard that American teachers have it so that 20% of your grade depends on your attitude and participation. It might not seem like much but it'll mean that much less students participating in bullying since their grades are on the line. America also has it so that when you're suspended or expelled, it stays on your record forever. Korea won't see any advancement with the way they treat these students like children."

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46 comments:

  1. tara should attend this school

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  2. LOL


    I second that motion, pretty sure the k-netizens would too haha

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  3. So basically putting sheeps together with wolves....

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  4. "We need to implement ideas from American schools. I heard that American teachers have it so that 20% of your grade depends on your attitude and participation. It might not seem like much but it'll mean that much less students participating in bullying since their grades are on the line. America also has it so that when you're suspended or expelled, it stays on your record forever. Korea won't see any advancement with the way they treat these students like children."



    Okay, yeah the school record thing is true but is the 20% attitude/participation true? o__o I'm from North America, and I've never heard of that..

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    1. Me2 & im a senior in high school

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    2. I live on the East Coast, and there was such a thing about attendence and participation affecting our grades.

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    3. Yeah, I live on the west coast- and a lot of our marks (depends on the course, but usually 20%) depends on participation.

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    4. In Ohio it is. Any student found to be disturbing the class the teacher is allowed to deduct points from him most teachers do a 50/50 if you are a good student the grade is also weighted so it counts as a quiz grade. But I mean its Ohio, we are one of the most peaceful, middle to high class state

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  5. man, if 20% of my grade depended on attitude & participation.. the highest grade I can ever get is a B -_-

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  6. Like any other school then...

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  7. goosebumps, goosebumps, goosebumps
    i've hearing about this bullying thing in American movies now korean dramas, i hoped that's just ... i dunno .... a lie ? .........
    i don't get it , where r those ppls families ? teachers ? anyone ?? .....goosebumps

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  8. "they turn the school into one" are they sayin the bully makes everyone turn agaisnt one person? I know it's a serious thing to talk about but if everyone is so agaisnt bullying why doesnt everyone just go against the bully? Why are there even bullies if everyone is agaisnt it? Why can't they gather people to confess that they've been bullied or that someone is bullying other? But when it comes to a celebrity everyone attacks them. Hiding behind tour computer screen typing bs doesn't make you anybetter... Anyway I agree with the last comment

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  9. The idea is stupid at all, aggressor become aggressor because of their families, friends.. So the case isn't put together aggressors and victims

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  10. Interested in the topic of bullying myself I find it outrageous that
    they would have decided to make a "documentary" from this. This is
    completely pointless because we all know that aggressors,bullies and
    people in general act differently in front of the camera...

    This comment pretty much sums it up.

    [+125, -4] I'm a victim of school aggression myself and I sincerely
    laughed while watching this show. It was so painfully obvious how
    everything was a lie. They were only acting like they were reformed
    because cameras were rolling and producers were watching them. When they
    get back to their own schools, they're going to go back to doing what
    they've always done.

    And word of advice, don't let the victims sleep in the same room as the
    aggressors. Do you even know how insanely scary that would be for them?

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  11. If you place bullies together with victims, wouldn't the victims be more vulnerable to bullies?

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  12. I don't think puting victims and agressors together and making them sing is the right way to treat this issue. SMH

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  13. Well, I live in the US and the high school I went to, participation has been 10% worth our grades. Even the college i go to now, participation is worth 10% of our grades. In high school though, we did get a conduct grade (I guess that's what they're referring to). If you had a N or a U and are in the honors program, you'd get kicked out. As for the non-honor students, they would call their parents.

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  14. WonderfulEverlastingJanuary 21, 2013 at 8:11 PM

    I think it depends on the schools but your participation in class, for most schools and classes, are always a part of your grade. I'm in college and it's still that way.

    But for the attitude, it's more used in elementary school. Once you hit middle school, it's basically, if you get caught bullying someone you get punished (for the most part).

    But lately schools are been more proactive with bullying due to all the suicide scandals of teens these past few years.

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  15. Korea needs to change its school system as a whole. The kids are sooo stressed and pushed to their breaking points. They aren't creating a positive learning environment, they are just putting weight and pressure on these kids shoulders. Stress + Studying do not coincide, your brain processes information and saves it better when its not under strain. Plus, they spend so many hours at school... and teachers can hit the students, which should never be okay. Parents should be the ones to handle discipline. Teachers are there to teach, if a kid is being disruptive kick his ass out and let him deal with the consequences of failing classes. On top of school demands, theres also the crazy social demands in Korea... really, alternative should be put into action. If they have to stay at school for hours at least make it an enjoyable place. You learn more when you like what you're learning and like the process of learning it.

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  16. My school was 30% participation, so definitely true. I think it just depends on the school districts' individual rules.

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  17. Pretty much.... aren't they being bullied at their schools originally... just giving a school where it's more concentrated in attempts to fix it w/o working on the regular schools.

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  18. hmmm...we did have that too but more in elementary..(well i live in a europe country where we only have kindergarden , elementary(6year) then high school(6years) so we didn't have middle school) and i think in high school too but wasn't that important ...but seriosuly it didn't change much -_-"..if people want to bully some kids they do it ! secretly or something..where teacher don't see them and of course the victim won't tell...there is always a way ..you can still discrimate or bully someone after class or something and report was really made when it involved a teacher...well in my school there weren't really bullys , not that remember but there were of course conflics with each other or fighting(even physicaly ) or isolation..but as i said there is always a way to bully and i think that this don't really help or the teacher don't take that so seriously , i don't think that america , europe , or any other country/continent is that better in this issue...there might a a lil different in betwen but still -_-'

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  19. In NSW, Australia participation plays a role in your report. It's not just 'B in English' but we get grades for the individual components of the course and then you get 'rated' on participation types things like if you do your homework, participate in discussions, ask questions etc. The teacher also rights a comment, they're usually generic except for when the student is really good or bad. It's a big deal for high school kids if their parents actually care cause they can't hide their behaviour.

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  20. This is a stupid idea that fails in every aspect. I developed depression which led to anorexia because of ostracism and bullying, it needs to be exposed and taken seriously. Luckily bullying is punished where I live, but it needs to happen in Korea.

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  21. I didn't know South Korea is one of the countries that has a lot of people with psychological problems. They better up their mental health budget.

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  22. "Korea won't see any advancement with the way they treat these students like children."

    True. It seems like they act as though as if the students don't have the ability to judge and rationalize for themselves.

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  23. Lol not when I was in school. I got punished for fighting back and not tolerating bullies and my parents pleas for help where ignored even when they had proof. Teachers called me a problem child for disrupting the flow.

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  24. It's already bad enough that the victims are bullied at school. This show makes them sleep in the same room too, so they can't even go home to escape.


    Seriously... People who bully others to that extent need to be sent to a disciplinary program. Their being on tv is only going to inflate their overly large heads.

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  25. I suddenly feel dumb... I thought they were building a "bully free" school for victims but thenI read the "AND BULLIES" bit... smh... thats the dumbest thing i've read in a looooong time... theyre closing their eyes and covering their ears to the problem and that could only make it bigger... aside from School 2013, im watching FBND and to watch how severe is Dok mi's fear to people portrayed cuz she was a victim of bullying is sad... following her during her adulthood to the point of becoming a hermit is heartbreaking... at some point, she looked for help but stop doing it... I wonder how many people dont even try to look for help with a professional and end up harming themselves or even worse...

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  26. ia... I always roll my eyes how in every drama involving a high schoolers theyre all called "kids" and treated and justified like they were kids... instead of telling them they did wrong, theres the "ohh theyre kids let them be.." and im like "whut?!" since those kids are almost adults how can you justify them like theyre 5 year olds..? even 5 year olds know at some point when theyre doing right or wrong...

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  27. Bullying has been plaguing S Korea for a really long time already. It very sad that the government and authorities still choose not to address this matter. Poor kids..

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  28. Er, I think that particular Korean has convoluted ideas about the American school system. Those that get expelled from schools do not usually change their behavior and some of them get expelled from many schools. And suspension away from school is a big joke. If you need for bullies and other problem kids to change their ways, it's a tough task honestly. The only viable way to keep them in line and to keep everyone else safe is to send them all into the military, huhuhu...

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  29. Doesn't putting the bullies together with the victims traumatize them even more? = =

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  30. wow building a special school for victims of bullying indicates that bullying in Korea is really severe..I can safely say in this aspects Philippines is better than korea..im 3rd year now and i never experience being bullied by my fellow classmates..nor bullying other..i wonder whats the problem of this kids,by to they love bullying..

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  31. true cause my school didn't suspend me when i fought back. the bully on the other did get suspend for 2 weeks.

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  32. This seems like a bad idea, causes suffering to the victims...

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  33. IKR. For me, the action of MOGEF made me realize my point earlier. I mean, MVs banned because it mentions alcohol and school violence. I mean, WTF is up with that reasoning?! Don't students go to school because they need to learn about life? Why do they have to shield these "children" away from reality?

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  34. Trivialising bullying in schools is still something that happens in most countries, bullying has the stigma in the eyes of adults as just being young people overreacting, or not being strong enough, when in reality it can be so soul crushing that your new generation and hope for the future don't even want to live on this planet any more. It is not a lack of mental strength it is a criminal injustice, nobody should have to be subjected to it, and it should not be perceived as 'normal' or expected in kids their age (or any age for that matter).

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  35. I thought this was a good thing at first but maybe they should put just the victims in the school.

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  36. It almost sounds like you didn't think bullying ever happens, am I correct? If so, where are you from?

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  37. I *think* there may still be somewhat of a stigma in America, but you're probably right about things being worse in Japan and Korea.

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  38. "America also has it so that when you're suspended or expelled, it stays on your record forever"

    WAIT WHAT? in korea they don't put it on your record? O_O and they don't base a small part of your grade on behavior? wow..


    I think what the bullies and victims need most is a psychologist >.> making a school that puts bullies and victims together for 10 days would traumatize them (i mean if I were a victim who had to be put together with someone that bullies people, i would be terrified)

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  39. yes exactly , i'm from Morocco,
    there is this Mental bullying but not a physical one, there will be sometimes one or a group of ppl that no one care or talk to them, but no one will dare to touch them .*i studied in 3 diff primary school , middle school and two different high schools now i am in college , still never witnessed such a thing*
    now by reading about this, it's is just scary ><

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  40. Well that's better than both physical and mental bullying. Interesting fact though: loneliness registers in the same part of the brain as pain.

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  41. Oh you're lucky and I'm jealous. I got sent (well my parents did) to court when I broke a bully's glasses after punching them in the face. His parents sued mine for damages. They won.

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