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Monday, August 25, 2014

Dispatch provides text messages exchanged between Kim Hyun Joong and A


Article: [Exclusive] The truth behind Kim Hyun Joong's assault case?... Seen through 'evidence'

Source:
Dispatch via Naver

General translation of texts exchanged


1. The length of their relationship

Conclusion: KeyEast lacks evidence. A has evidence of their texts dating back to 2013 as well as Kim Hyun Joong hoping she can find back the two years she's lost.

Picture 1: Taken in April 2012 at the beginning of their relationship.
Picture 2: Taken in March 2014 while on a date during 'Inspiring Generation' filming

2013 Texts Kim Hyun Joong sent to A:
- I miss you~
- A-ya~~♥
- I'll be good to you
- Don't break up with oppa
- I love you
- Do you want to live with oppa?

2014:
- I'm sorry
- I hope you can find back the two years you've lost.
- These are my genuine feelings.

2. The physical fight


Conclusion: KeyEast lacks evidence. The day after the physical fight took place, Kim Hyun Joong had a Japanese fan meet. No bruises or wounds were seen anywhere on him. A, however, has a text Kim Hyun Joong sent her the day after the fight.

A: My entire body is covered in bruises.. It hurts. I'm so upset it ended up like this. I was beat to the point where I wouldn't die. Why do I have to get beat like this?

Kim Hyun Joong: I don't know why I did it when I knew I'd be sorry not even a day after. I hope your bruises and your pain get better. I'm genuinely sorry.

3. Habitual assault


KeyEast only admits to one case of assault on May 30th that required two weeks of treatment. Therefore, the assault was not habitual.

A has records of over three instances of assault, therefore the assault was habitual. (May 30th requiring two weeks, July 21st requiring six weeks, and another at the end of July).

A's text message to a friend the day after her 'rib cage fight' with Kim Hyun Joong:
- I fought with Kim Hyun Joong.
- My rib hurts so much, I can't lay to the side.
- He pushed it so hard that it cracked.

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1. [+1,003, -48] If the texts are true, she did not get hurt by just fooling around

2. [+860, -34] Look at Dispatch with the evidence, daebak goose bumps, scary

3. [+901, -88] There are four types of people that a man should never touch: the weak, the disabled, women, and children.

4. [+709, -35] If they had fooled around one more time, she would've been dead

5. [+438, -11] If they dated for two years, she will obviously have a lot of evidence to back up. Why did KeyEast lie about things that can easily be disproved? Just admit it..

6. [+186, -4] Goosebumps~~ He sounds like a psychopath in the texts... knowing he'd be sorry over actions he chose to commit.

7. [+185, -12] The fact that he hit a woman is already unforgivable~~ How could he hit a woman..

8. [+168, -4] The text messages give me goose bumps... are you sure he's not psychologically ill? He needs help.. He regrets hitting her but does it again anyway.. hul

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481 comments:

  1. holy shit. he needs help

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  2. u can run but you cant hide...

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  3. He can't really get out of this, don't try to shield him please.

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  4. just disappear nobody needs women abusers like you anywhere

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  5. I believed her anyway, but she's been so thorough with her proof I don't see how anyone can not believe her after this.

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  6. Rest in r.i.p. KHJ career

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  7. Why is this disgusting piece of trash not in jail yet?

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  8. The cycle of abuse is so prominent in these texts it makes me so sad ;;;;

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  9. He really remind me of "last friends" jdrama.
    What a psycho

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  10. psychopath right there ladies!.....dont even try to shield this awful person.......thank you!

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  11. It's scary that the netizen reaction still isn't as vicious as the hate KARA and T-ara received for their scandals, which were child's play compared to this.

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  12. speechless! find strength girl!

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  13. Kim Hyun Joong: I don't know why I did it when I knew I'd be sorry not even a day after. I hope your bruises and your pain get better. I'm genuinely sorry.





    CREEEPY......it's not just 4D...something is so wrong with him...

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  14. just stop with banging around the bushes and start with his punishment already
    that could happen if only SK had a dictatorship like NK LMAO

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  15. KHJ's side is a mess. I hope he gets proper jail time for this

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  16. He sounds like textbook abuser. Im sorry, I don't know why I did it, etc. If you were really sorry then don't lie. Accept what you've done and the consequences of it.

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  17. This is seriously scary... I used to be a fan but wow. Speechless.

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  18. this man is disgusting. He def has an issue. And this woman has problems too, why she let him beat her so many time, and it's getting harder and harder. I don't understand why u still can love a man who beat you, and beat that hard. I was beat by my exbf, it's just a slap but i still can't forget that day until now...

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  19. Gosh when ever i hear news about him i get really sad :( KHJ was my first Korean love who got me into kpop and kdramas. I seriously have everything in that man names, even phone cases and clothing, books, posters, bedding and so on. And everything went to waste. Come one KHJ what were you thinking? You're also hurting your fans. I hope i don't get called a delulu fan just because i still consider myself his #1 fan. If the texts are true then, i guess i have to change my opinion of him, but i won't change it yet.. It's hard though... Gosh KHJ what are you thinking?? I feel so bad for that lady. I hope she's okay. I can't even shield you anymore KHJ... Sadly my favorite Idols/stars are going down quickly in 2014... Please don't let anything happen to Jhope, Tao, Kai or Hwanhee. Or BTS..

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  20. Am the only one worried about the girl and KHJ? What he did was definitely wrong, but if the texts are an accurate representation, it's like he lost control. I feel like he needs to see a psychologist.

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  21. this is exactly like those fanfics fans usually write about abusing, apologizing, the male idols change and they get back together. Endless circle

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  22. He is an abuser, and he has possibly abused other women before. That much is clear from these texts. He exhibits so many of the classic signs of an abuser.

    Notice how he always stresses that his feelings of remorse are "genuine" and sincere. "I'm genuinely sorry", "these are my genuine feelings", etc. That's actually something people who are NOT genuine often say. In the book The Gift of Fear (great book btw), the author mentions how a classic warning sign is someone who specifically tells you they have no intentions of hurting you. In the same way, someone who specifically has to tell you they are being genuine is usually lying.

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  23. Dispatch is so creepy

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  24. It is scary how he hugged her and looked so happy. And then it turned all the way around.

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  25. He sounds so scary. Calling himself oppa makes it even worse.

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  26. Put this sick fuck in jail. Let him rot.

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  27. After seeing It's okay that's love and reading 50 shades of grey, I think it is just Kim Hyun Joong has psychological problem. He could not control and remember he hit her hard or like that

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  28. I think he just needs help... he sounds like a bipolar imo..

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  29. heol but how did dispatch get this?

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  30. A: My entire body is covered in bruises.. It hurts. I'm so upset it
    ended up like this. I was beat to the point where I wouldn't die. Why do
    I have to get beat like this?



    Kim Hyun Joong: I don't know why I did it when I knew I'd be sorry not
    even a day after. I hope your bruises and your pain get better. I'm
    genuinely sorry.


    holy shit. this part of the exchange is just chilling. There's no excuse for this guy.

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  31. shit just got real

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  32. Is this KHJ that played on BOF?? T.T Why ...
    I used to be a fan..but I'm scared of him now.
    Hope "A" finds strength

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  33. I can almost hear celebrity's deleting messages, history's and changing passcodes...dispatch is getting creepy..how do they know everything?

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  34. For what it seems . "A" must be a non-celeb
    Poor her. Such a bad boy he is

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  35. NOBODY BETTER SHIELD HIM NOW

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  36. No way to shield this now. He needs to be in jail. He's disgusting.

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  37. As much as I hate Kim Hyun Joong for all of this, I do wonder how Dispatch got hold of these conversations and if by making them public they are compromising evidence in the trial against him

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  38. i'm in shock. seriously.

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  39. Goodbye Kim Hyun Joong.

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  40. A gave them to Dispatch.

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  41. OMG he sounds like what generic abusers do. He is making his victim feel secure with that "i'm genuinely sorry" crap so tht she might feel that he didnt' mean it and it wasn't a habitual thing. Like wow,that is how victims stay by abusers side. He is pretty scary. But i bet delulu fans will be like "see oppa didn't mean it. Oppa is still deep down a nice guy." like ugh give it a rest and send him behind the bars.

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  42. 'A' gave them to dispatch and she probably has even more evidence that she can use in court

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  43. I seriously lost all my respect for him. He really needs to see a psychologist as soon as possible.

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  44. "only started dating recently" but..."I hope you can find back the two years you've lost." lol smh at this mess.

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  45. So we're knowing his true color and there's no way to excuse his acts!!
    God!! he really has very serious issues!!

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  46. This part
    " -I'll be good to you- Don't break up with oppa
    - I love you
    - Do you want to live with oppa?"
    sold him like a fucking psychopath.... Disgusting.

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  47. I know! I got chills reading it. Scary!

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  48. Not about this situation but egh...can't stand that weird looking hairstyle of his.......

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  49. for this case i believe A gave this evidence to dispatch.

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  50. dude the guy already admitted that he physically hurt her..im still confused as to why people are questioning her claims when he made it official that he did hurt her.. but in either case, this just further strengthens her words and proves that he was lying when he said that they had only started dating few months ago

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  51. They always apologize after the abuse, swear it will never happen again, and attempt to emotionally manipulate the victim into staying. But of course it often does happen again and so the cycle continues.


    I remember years back reading a comment from someone who was positive that he was a sociopath. I dismissed them as just a hater but now i'm wondering if they had it right.

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  52. It must be A who gave dispatch

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  53. Game Over for Him
    http://media.giphy.com/media/Zcnm5ouANnh5K/giphy.gif

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  54. This is scary!

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  55. I think he needs psychological help

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  56. It should be pretty easy for the police to prove if the texts are real right? Wow, scary.

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  57. the guy clearly has issues and needs help.. it quite scary reading his responses to her.

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  58. I still dont understand why KARA receives so much hate. can someone please tell me what they did??

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  59. Never put oppar high up on pedestal after this. Always the cool perfect one.

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  60. If you think about it, even if she no longer can use this evidence in court, the affect of spreading it does a lot to tarnish his name which may be just as effective as getting him in jail.

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  61. Sounds like something most abusers say.
    Wow!

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  62. psychological problem is the reason. not the excuse but yes, he has a reason.

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  63. 3. [+901, -88] There are four types of people that a man should never touch: the weak, the disabled, women, and children.



    Then they shouldn't touch anyone at all?

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  64. for shame kim hyun joong. for shame. tsk.

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  65. Hara threw a water bottle at oppa.
    Seungyeon is a bad actress
    Jiyoung cried when asked to do aegyo


    Thats about it.

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  66. Hyunjoong ah whyyy... im seriously shocked o_o

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  67. wow he sounded like he has mental illness, the part where he knew that it was wrong to hit the gf, but he still did it..O_O

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  68. Kim Hyun Joong: I don't know why I did it when I knew I'd be sorry not
    even a day after. I hope your bruises and your pain get better. I'm
    genuinely sorry
    Violent man always like this, and he will not change.
    I believe in A , hope she find strength. His delusion fans need to stop trying to defend this devil

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  69. the article has just been released so not many koreans have read it yet. give it a day and you will see a ton more hate in it. this is a huge matter in korea

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  70. ...................August 25, 2014 at 2:38 AM

    Why do you always have to make everything about T-ara?

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  71. Don't forget the hate on Taeyeon...

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  72. Misogyny at its finest.

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  73. [+901, -88] There are four types of people that a man should never touch: the weak, the disabled, women, and children.



    TO ALL THE MAN OUT THERE..

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  74. I'm officially disgusted.

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  75. One of the members got embarrassed and cried when the hosts asked her to do aegyo. That was basically it. Then they received comments from netizens like this:

    2. [+1,440, -58] I hate them so much

    3. [+1,410, -97] Fu*k off KARA, you dogs



    Now we have Kim Hyung Joong who beat up a woman and broke her ribs and the reaction from netizens is far more muted than it should be considering the backlash female idols have received for petty attitude controversies,

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  76. in my class we learned that there are two types of abusers, the ones that are afraid their girl will leave them and the type that just want control and power over the girl. reading these texts, he seems like the type that's afraid of her leaving him?? also i learned that it's easier to treat the first type. he seriously needs psychological help along with the fan girls that are shielding him.

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  77. does he have double personality or something?

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  78. bring up your snsd unnirs everywhere, yeah

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  79. Fight fight fight fight!!!!!

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  80. those all are only events that took place in 2014.... right? it's scary to think that more assaults may have been happened during 2012~2014.

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  81. he is not a monster. everyone who has psychological problem is just pathetic being that needs help/treatment.
    he will have to get punishment, but comments like yours will prevent a human being from coming back to normal life after receiving treatment.

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  82. Huh, you don't seem to have a problem with T-ara or KARA bring brought up.

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  83. And she claims this is the 3rd assault? Good for her that she finally took action or else the cycle would repeat again. The guy is sick in the head

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  84. FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!!!!!

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  85. Dumb fangirls that still defend him need help

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  86. Because it's extremely worrying that girl groups like KARA and T-ara received comments like these over attitude controversies and rumors of things:

    2. [+1,440, -58] I hate them so much

    3. [+1,410, -97] Fu*k off KARA, you dogs

    1. [+1,050, -52] Don't bull$hit me ㅋㅋㅋㅋ I seriously feel like throwing up every time I see their faces ㅡㅡ What do these fake bi*ches NOT know how to do in front of the camera? Just fu*k off, please

    3. [+963, -42] Oh yeah, you have homework, one of them being fu*k off;

    2. [+767, -36] Now that they were fired from their CFs and ambassador roles and being kicked out of dramas on top of their song failing despite all this media play... Looks like all they've got left is to sell their fake emotions for some sympathy... Piles of sh*t



    Yet here we have a man who beat up a woman and broke her ribs and the reaction is nothing near the level of what the female idols received. There is something seriously wrong with that.

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  87. Probably because A gave the evidenses to dispatch. Since any smart person would know giving to such a powerful media will be more beneficial than just giving it to the police. Like this way people will see his true colors and the scandal wont get spun around and make it seem like she was a gold digger all along.

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  88. if any of his fangirls come out and try to defend him, they need to be send for psychological help along with their oppa .

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  89. He does sounds like a psychopath. Especially given his interviews at the same time all this was happening. Scary.

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  90. 4. [+709, -35] If they had fooled around one more time, she would've been dead

    I seriously can't understand people asking why she didn't leave him beforehand. People don't leave their abusers because they're afraid they'll kill them if they try to leave.

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  91. Wow. Good on dispatch and her.

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  92. I believed her anyway

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  93. Daebak. Daebak. Waahhhh.. :'(

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  94. He sounds crazy but unfortunately typical of an abuser- apologize and apologize and do it again. Geez. This is awful.

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  95. Okay, so, let me see if I can keep up with the lingo.

    Plagiarism is an 'homage,' and beating the shit out of someone is 'fooling around?'

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  96. I'm seriously speechless right now. He made such an impression on me when I first got into kpop years ago. I always thought "Unbreakable" was a great song, Jihoo was awesome and his Baek Seung-jo character was amazing, but he just turned into scum within seconds. He was never my bias but I always thought well of him as a celebrity. Now I can't support him anymore. There's no excuse for this. It's unforgivable.

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  97. Thats true. I apologize with all beautiful self-deprecating words available to my superior and use the word 'really' a lot. After i sent i them im like, 'what the fuck was i doing' because i dont feel that way at all. I just dont want to be seen as the bad guy. If i apologize and my superior doesnt accept it, hes the bitch, right? Despite whatever mistakes i'd done. I quit not long after, telling ppl its bcs of my boss, when he just did what he supposed to do. In the end, im the true bitch. But what goes around comes around tho. I get what i sow.

    So beware of foxes like me, people. Hahah.

    But this guy is such a typical abuser. Trash.

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  98. When normal people "lose control" during an argument with an SO, they yell, raise their voice, say hurtful words, or might even punch a wall or something. They do not BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF THAT PERSON MULTIPLE TIMES.

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  99. fangirls if u still dont believe. u can accompany ur oppa to a mental asylum. he is the type who first hits then apologize and feel sorry and again do the same thing

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  100. Well you fucked up KHJ, come back to korea and receive your punishments, even though your sorry for what you did to her, but doesn't change the fact you hit her. Plus his fans can't do anything, do whatever you want, your oppa did a crime, now hes doing the time~
    http://reactiongifs.me/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/black-dynamite-you-done-fucked-up-now.gif

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  101. OMG this guy is so scary. This is exactly how a habitual abuser would talk. The genuinely sorry crap after beating her is just a vicious cycle. He physically assaults her, then apologizes, they reconcile and the cycle repeats. I'm just so glad that she managed to get out of this and report him because so many women don't have the courage to do so. I hope she can give strength and inspiration to all those in an abusive relationship.

    As for KHJ, why the eff isn't he being summoned to the police station yet? Like dafuq? The guy doesn't need reflecting after dancing and singing on stage. He needs to be thrown in jail ASAP. The guy sounds like a psycho it's giving me chills.

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  102. kim hyun joong is trash, end of. don't defend him.

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  103. And a jail time for assault.

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  104. dude this /just/ got posted. the comments are going up by the second

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  105. I don't know Korean law, but if it's similar to US law I hope she has given the evidence to the lawyers first or gotten consent to give it to the media, because if she hasn't, and khj's lawyer is competent, then he can totally dispute that.

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  106. Are you serious? You have no idea whether this dude has psychological problems. Please stop attempting to excuse his behavior.

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  107. I vaguely rememember something in Chris Brown's case where since some evidence was leaked it was inadmissible in court and I just don't want that to happen in this case as well.

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  108. It's really sad that she has to be so thorough for people to believe her though. I can't even begin to imagine how difficult it must be for her to find those old messages and then remember all of the things he has done to her, not to mention be absolutely terrified of what he'll do when he sees these things leaked. I hope this girl's safe from him right now because I would be so damn scared for my life.

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  109. No abuse of any kind towards anyone should be tolerated. It's sad that this kind of stuff still happens.

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  110. This is scary. Just Imagine how much and how hard he hit her until her rib was broken and she was hospitalized for weeks like this. Reading his texts gives me chill, he has psychological problems. He needs to be thrown in jail. Hope A find strength!

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  111. Cheon Song Yo's Sis-in-LawAugust 25, 2014 at 2:48 AM

    most likely.. if this is the first girl he ever hit..i guess his love for her is on the bad kind of love..intense insane love..
    imo.. they actually both need help..
    this reminds me of Tablo's Bad song/mv..

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  112. Why does he seem like a psycho in the text
    Really scary
    His 4D image has shattered completely

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  113. as a psychology student, yes, I do think he has psychological problems. It is not an excuse for his action. It is the reason. Because it is not an excuse, he deserves punishment. And because there is a reason, he deserves treatment

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  114. Also, sometimes the victims are brainwashed into thinking that their partner will change afterr a fight or that it was the victim's fault for getting the abuser mad or into thinking "that's just them." Honestly, it's like the victim is in a trance and they can't get out of it.

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  115. Those are probably not the only pictures/texts she can use as evidence. And since there's a big chance that he's not going to get a harsh sentence (just like most abuse cases, especially since he has money) damaging his reputation is a good way to go, imo.

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  116. There's been articles about this for a few days now, it didn't just break three minutes ago.

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  117. Some doctors have termed it 'crazy love'. And it would take years of treatment typically to fix him unless his case is an exception but looking at it .. it's very typical.

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  118. he seriously has some major issues! i mean, even from these texts i'm like cringing... i can't even fathom..

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  119. When he goes to army poor him. Women beater arent loved there

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  120. Sounds more like bipolar

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  121. It's honestly so disgusting. Like how f'ed up do you have to be to beat your partner?? I can't look at him without getting creeped out anymore.

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  122. I think the reason it's a bit difficult to believe women who make claims like this is the fact that they make these claims against celebrities and so it's hard to tell if it's really true or someone trying to take down a celebrity and ruin their career. But yeah it is sad that she has to show all this evidence to prove her claims are true.

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  123. This like one of the scene from "It's ok It's love" both of them should schedule an appointment with Haesoo ;p

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  124. You have absolutely no way of knowing this. None at all. Doesn't matter if you're a student (meaning you're still learning and therefore not practicing in any professional capacity). You should also know as a student that you cannot and should diagnosis anyone without having first seen them. No, you are excusing him. This is the new oppadidntmeanit.

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  125. I've given up on KHJ. I'm supposed to be your number 1 fan but I can't and will not condone violence against women. And to think you got me into kpop *sigh*
    Yah! the rest of you G Dragon, Yongbae, Key, Kim Soohyun, Lee Seungi, Lee Hongki, Yonghwa.......y'all better behave yourselves or I might be cursing somebody -.-

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  126. And I suggest you not learn things from IOIL. That drama shows nothing reliable/realistic about patients with metal disorder. Atm, KHJ is a scary monster who needs psychological help. When he gets it and is able to function like a normal human being instead of treating others like trash and beating them, that's when we should expect others to treat him well.

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  127. a broken hearted TripleS here. If I say sth, they call me a dumb fangirl. If I said I left the fandom, teared his photos and burned his album, I may get upvotes?? It's hard for Henecia and TripleS right now, that our oppas may have hard time to comeback. If he was wrong, we agree he must be punished following the rule. But plz sympathize for us, we can't even imagine that, the leader we love for his kind and thoughtful personality.
    TripleS, be strong!!

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  128. Ah my friend said she thought he was crazy a couple of years ago after watching him on an interview but I dismissed her as well because he seemed so nice on Strong Heart but I guess she reads people a lot better than me...

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  129. With all this evidence, I too wonder why he hasn't been locked up yet? He should go to prison for this crime, then get psychological help.

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  130. but i do have knowledge about psychology than a commentor like you. He did it. He is an adult, which means he deserves the punishment according to the law.

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  131. Hot mess in korea entertainment industry right now.


    Kim Hyun Joong's assault, Song Hye Kyo's tax evasion, Han Hye Joo's dongsaeng bullying? in the army.


    those cases are bigger than ParkBom case atm.

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  132. No he doesn't, what he deserves is to go to fucking prison and to get rape by his cellmates

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  133. It's weird because I don't think anyone suspected it from him of all people. Scary how little we really know about celebrities.

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  134. What's scary is that I have a feeling that he will get a small punishment. Then he will go into the military. After he's done, he will have a comeback. but will mostly tour other places instead of Korea. I notice his fanbase is bigger in other places. Plus most of them are still supporting him.

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  135. those bullsh*t reasons clearly. i would say it's a buildup from annoyance at their amazing and i mean top of the top popularity in Japan that they barely focused on Korea. most of their fans are male too so just in general fangirls hate the heck out of them.

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  136. I think most people, like myself, believed her as soon as she went to court to give in evidence (basically at the start). It was just the delulus for the most part.
    Ah, to this lady. I hope she finds strength in court and that KHJ the bastard and his company (reps) receive full punishment (the latter for lying).

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  137. Many of his fans actually said how girl deserved it etc so sorry but i aint gonna sympathize with ppl like that

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  138. If you're a psychology student you also should know that you can't make a proper assessment of someone based only on information provided through the media on the internet.

    Sit down. Even if he does have psychological reasons for his anger, beating his girlfriend to the point of hospitalization is NOT EXCUSABLE.

    He's well enough of mind to try to manipulate her with apologies, he's well enough of mind to face the consequences of his actions.

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  139. lol, whatever you say. Come back to me when you've graduated, gotten your license, have practiced for a while and have had a couple of sessions with KHJ.

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  140. rape is just as bad as assault, most likely even worse, and it's a touchy topic as well. i suggest you rethink your words. what kim hyunjoong did was bad but he doesn't need anybody raping him to realize that. stop.

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  141. I can not ratify. I hope not to intervene personal matters

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  142. Its not wrong to still like the other members tho. Its not like they also beat her or anything.

    I guess what makes ppl mad is fans that basically blaming the victims or said KHJ must be has "reasons" to beat her up etc etc instead of accept that hes an asshole who smiles a lot.

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  143. He seems to be the obsessive as boyfriends, which kind of scared me. I am truly disappointed and he needs to be locked up for at least 6 months because i agree with one of the comments, if they fooled around once more she could've died. Too many proof against him, the company and himself can't do anything but admit it and turn himself in. Don't try to be YG, they don't have enough money or power to shield this one. Confess and go to jail.

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  144. lol fiction is not a good source for reference regarding mental illnesses.. he clearly has something; whether he beat her intentionally or not, we will never know.

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  145. I remember when he said a girlfriend broke up with him for calling her an ex's name. I thought it was funny then but now............-.-

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  146. I think I'll save my sympathy for his victim and not his delusional fans

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  147. Dude this. I already believed her right off the bat because most women do not lie when they say they're being abused. 1 in every 4 women experiences domestic violence in her lifetime. The chances of her telling the truth far exceed the chances of her lying, and there are still so many people derailing her. So gross.

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  148. i agree with you but honestly you have to take context into it as well. those KARA/T-ara hate articles are mostly crazy fangirls who have nothing better to do with their lives while these on KHJ's are not.

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  149. He makes me sick. I broke, trashed, and burned all of the merch I bought to support him. I feel sick that I wasted money on this vile abuser.
    I really hope she recovers from this.

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  150. as a psychology student, I learn about possibilities. Before having an conclusion about the patient situation, any signs need to be included in the consideration

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  151. I think this was the smoking gun but I can see why the public would proceed with caution. People often mix tv persona and reality and he is a star and it would be the first time someone manipulated that.

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  152. Actually if u really symphatize him, you should admit his fault and don't let him feel okay just because his fans still support him.
    It'll just make things worsen.

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  153. umm how about no? i freaking hate girls who sympathise with women abusers just because he is handsome. this is the reason why girls who are in a abusive relationship dont go to police because people wont believe them. dont u feel ashamed at all? u want sympathy

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  154. I think it's funny how you try to bring YG and Bom's case up... If anything you shouldn't. Remember how Dispatch reported on Bom's case with the most rational thing and cleared everything up... Everyone thought they were liars, but now look. Seems to me they are pretty trust worthy...

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  155. No fan of park bom but have to say this. Park bom didnt hurt anyone if she took drugs.

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  156. During the Sewol Ferry incident there was this woman who went around giving fake interviews and she'd done so before all for attention but it took some time before people realised it Given that example and the lack of any actual credibility for a lot of Korean journalists, it's started to make sense to to wait before believing things blindly

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  157. You can still be a triple S... just forget about KHJ, a girlfriend beater doesn't have good qualities in the first place so he never deserved to be in the group.

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  158. ...you're seriously just a fan trying to shield his image. I wouldn't be surprised if you don't know the first thing about psychology-- and this is coming from someone who majored in psychology before dropping out.

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  159. disquskeepsmarkingmeasspamAugust 25, 2014 at 3:01 AM

    This makes me so uncomfortable

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  160. 5. [+438, -11] If they dated for two years, she will obviously have a
    lot of evidence to back up. Why did KeyEast lie about things that can
    easily be disproved? Just admit it..


    I think the CEO of this company should resign straight away!!!

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  161. The first thing you learn in Psychology is that students are not licensed professionals and cannot diagnose other people, not to mention strangers. Your comments are so embarrassing and funny!

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  162. Just like Hollywood movie. I think he needs psychological helps.

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  163. i am just bring IOIL as an example where people can have glimpse about psychological patients. Should I suggest psychological documentary instead?
    The treatment progress starts right at the moment when people recognize the symptom of the patient. At the moment, he of course needs to face the legal investigation. But he should also be encouraged to receive treatment. Looking at how people curses at him like this, he will kill himself faster than receiving punishment and treatment. Hospital or jail, at the end of the day are to help people going back to normal life

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  164. I understand what you mean. My brother used to beat me a lot when I was little. I hated him then. When I grew older, I realized it was because my dad used to beat him a lot too, so he always took it out on me. It was psychological and he's not a monster. He's changed now though as he hasn't laid a finger on me in like 7 years and it has to do with the fact that he's too grown for my dad to hit him too. It's because of this childhood experience that I don't condone abuse of any kind at all. I feel the girl's pain honestly.

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  165. Kim Hyun Joong is truly disgusting. He truly sounds like an abuser. The whole "I'm sorry I don't know why I did it" is a classic statement.

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  166. IntenseFeelings_UglySobbingAugust 25, 2014 at 3:03 AM

    "Don't break up with oppa". I have Goosebumps.

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  167. You took the words right out of my mouth. I'm also wondering why there's no women's rights group stepping up, usually in our country, the victim would be protected and helped by the women's rights party.

    But I do believe that most people believed her, there are just a couple of KHJ fans that are too delusional smh. There's even a #WeBelieveInKimHyunJoong tag in twitter.

    I do hope this woman finds strength and KHJ can receive a proper punishment for his disgusting crime, his reps too for shielding him.

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  168. You are so embarrassing I could cry. First you claim to be an expert based on majoring in psychology, and now you're using 50 shades of Grey as a reference? D:

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  169. Bad boys are charming

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  170. I know it probably hurts coming to terms with the fact that your bias did something really heinous - you like him, you're invested in him, it makes sense. :( But the sympathy truly and fully belongs to the victim in this case: domestic violence is such an awful, traumatic thing to experience in general.. Imagine the person you love breaking your ribs! It'll take a while, but I'm sure you'll start to see things clearly soon. What he did is really unforgivable :/

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  171. Probably because dumb teenage idol fans are the only ones posting in the Kara hate thread, but this news probably has a lot more "normal" netizens commenting.

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  172. Good riddance Kim Hyun Joong, now pay for your crime and I don't mean hush it up with money paid to the victim.

    he will never find work as an actor in Korea again and I doubt delulu power will give him enough money from Japan/Asia after this.

    and yeah, KeyEast got read like a children's book. If Yonsama has any sense, they'll dump him now and stop lying for him.

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  173. Kim Hyun Joong: I don't know why I did it when I knew I'd be sorry not
    even a day after. I hope your bruises and your pain get better. I'm
    genuinely sorry.

    [+186, -4] Goosebumps~~ He sounds like a psychopath in the texts... knowing he'd be sorry over actions he chose to commit.

    he sounds like a psycho

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  174. Hurm..very dissapointed with KHJ

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  175. i am not a fan. i don't even have any feeling when this news broke out. but after seeing people comment like this, from the perspective of someone who wants to help people with psychological issues recovering and escaping from their problems, i just find it cruel

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  176. Both of those are terrible sources for any information on mental illnesses of any kind! I haven't seen much of 'It's okay It's Love' mainly because it got so many things wrong and 50 shades of grey was a book that the author pulled out of her ass with no research whatsoever! They're both terrible and you cannot simply use it as a valid source for diagnosing anything and you cannot really make any sort of diagnosis unless you have been trained to do so.

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  177. Woman rights groups have gotten involved though. Kinda like a fandom war with KHJ's leech-like fans?

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  178. Vixx Leo and Lyn_ Blossom Tears played in my head when i read this article...><

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  179. But you can't do that without actually assessing him. Plus you're not a doctor, psychologist or a psychiatrist yet or if you ever plan to be. You can't be diagnosing or assuming that he has something when you don't have any evidence for it. Let the real doctors, psychologists, and psychiatrists check him out. Also not every psychological problem is treatable or easily treatable especially when the person themselves doesn't want it in the first place.

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  180. What? No. What's cruel is beating a woman to point where her ribs break and she has to take weeks to recover. Condemning such violent actions is NOT cruel AT ALL. Get your priorities straight.

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  181. Your initial comment was about how they weern't persecuting KHJ enough. But this comment just proves that what you're more worried about is T-ara and KAra hate comments. It's not a competition!


    Whilst I don't condone T-ara and Kara hate and all the malicious comments. This is not the frigging place. T-ara comments seem to be written by emotional-rampant teens. Comments on this article seem dumbfounded by KHJ and his company trying to cover this up or make it seem less of a big deal than it actually is.


    Honestly this is just so petty.

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  182. Oh shit, he needs to rot in jail. period. He should NOT reflect
    and comeback. What a waste of oxygen.

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  183. And I am so glad that none of those who have commented here are trying to justify his actions. Physical abuse is one thing but ever wondered if he had put his gf to more than that? The mental torture and trauma she has to go through. Oh God, I cant even with that

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  184. Very disturbing. What's scary is that there are many battered women who until now have no courage to get out of the relationship or even report to the authorities.

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  185. lol why does this have 12 upvotes

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  186. Oops. Didn't know that. Seriously though, I can't even remotely understand why there are still fans trying to justify his actions. There is only so far you can go.

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  187. oh god, I can see the fan excuse is now that oppa is mentally unstable and needs help~ joy.

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  188. LOL, well there's your problem. A normal person's feeling would be "outrage."

    From the perspective of someone who wants to help people, I look at the victim and think I'd want to help them, not shield the reputation of a man who thinks he can get away with breaking a woman's ribs with an insincere apology.

    Yes, he does clearly need help with his anger issues, but you don't know his past or his history enough to know whether it's an issue of chronic douchebaggery or an actual psychological issue.

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  189. Receiving a text like "I don't know why I did it when I knew I'd be sorry not even a day after. I hope your bruises and your pain get better. I'm genuinely sorry." is freaking scary.. Of two years being with him and him sending messages like this, i'd probably let him see a doctor!!

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